Commitment.....

Commitment is a big word... the definition in the dictionary states:
1. the act of committing.
2. the state of being committed.
3. the act of committing, pledging, or engaging oneself.
4. a pledge or promise; obligation:
5. engagement; involvement:
6. perpetration or commission, as of a crime.
7. consignment, as to prison.
8. confinement to a mental institution or hospital:

Not sure when but I seems to be having commitment phobic now. Commitment is like tinted glasses, they change the way you view Love. It adds a layer of responsibility, trust, expectations, needs, wants and desire on top of that pure love. When all this are on top of Love, somehow love just isn't that simple anymore. And worse of all we, woman, has constant "expectation" of our man, he must be caring, why didn't he call when he knows i am angry, why did he stop buying flowers, he should be planning for the trips because he is the man. All this is not healthy in the long run for both parties, it tires them out. One party is sick of not knowing what the other party really wants and one party is disappointed because it seems that the other cannot never deliver. I really admire some of my friends as they seem to be able to live their partners so peacefully and blissfully. Maybe they can advise me ............