Finding the One..........

No, I am not talking about Matrix, or some sci-fi movie ... :) Let's talk about LOVE!!! I believe everyone out there (including me) are looking High n Low for The ONE.... we are constantly asking ourself if the one beside us now is THE ONE. .. and if he/she is not, are we wasting our time? if he/she is, then will we be happily ever after?How can we identity THE ONE? Must we have the same hobby, interest, like the same food, has the same taste in things..etc?

All these things are superficial things, things we can see on the surface do not last... (.. okok i know i m begining to sound like some Love guru.. but it the truth) If we spend more time in loving that someone, rather then thinking about all the useless things..... THE ONE can be anyone around us.... as long as we use our heart to see... ok you are begining to think... Oh meow.. that is a load of crap... oh well here is a true story...

My bf and me are two pole apart.... and trust me it further then North and South pole... the food that i like he doesnt, the food that he likes i dun.... he is extremely quiet and ermm i am the "chatty" one..... he is very sensitive to details n I am a DA TOU XIA..... he is gentle and i am pretty rough.... we can look at a same issue and come up with totally different views and opinion... and more than often we end up squabbling. ... hahaha... yes that is a lot of differences.. but though all the quarrels and chatting, we are able to understand each other more n learn to appreciate each other too...

Ok enuff... it me and my "small" thoughts....* there will be more to come:P

Oh ya ... i am gonna boycot that coffeeshop near my workplace... not only is the coffee getting lousy... the services sux..... well guess tt ranking was true...